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Lets talk sex: The science of your brain on dirty talk

By 26. Juli 2024No Comments

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Whether you’re sexting your long-distance partner or heating things up in bed, don’t be afraid to channel your inner erotica writer and take sexytime to the next level. First of all, as with all things related to sex, you have to submit to the fact that dirty talk is vaguely ridiculous. Sex is basically just rubbing two (or more) naked bodies together because it feels good, so naturally any narration of the act is a little silly. You have to give into this, much like you give into the idea of another person seeing you naked.

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  • First of all, as with all things related to sex, you have to submit to the fact that dirty talk is vaguely ridiculous.
  • So why the embarrassment over sexually explicit words being whispered in my ear during sex?
  • And if you’re having partnered sex, don’t use words or phrases that feel unnatural to you just because you think it’s what your partner will like.

When I masturbate, I rely on erotic stories, sounds, and moans. The “good girl” complex, similar to the Madonna-Whore complex, is just one facet of what men want. ” where Ludacris acknowledges “we” (the men) want a lady in the street and freak in the bed. You might already notice some internal tension building so far as you’re reading this, just by thinking about saying some of these things out loud. While there’s nothing wrong with sticking to your comfort zone by staying within the parameters of these two dominant sexual senses, there’s so much fun to be had by letting your descriptive imagination run wild. This is partially because men and women are wired differently.

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Consent and Communication Are Essential

“I gotta go down on you right now.” Of course, this is not you saying what you’re going to do regardless of your partner’s consent; it’s like using your blinker—it’s an indicator of what you plan to do next. It provides a (sexy) window for your partner to say, “Wait, play with my boobs first before you do that,” or whatever else they might want. This should be obvious, but if Jason Derulo’s lyrics are any indication, it is not. Part of not sounding ridiculous is using sexy terms for body parts.

And it will be worth it; very little is hotter than well-done dirty talk. That’s why women tend to consume more written porn; it’s a large part of why 50 Shade of Grey did well. For example, many powerful women in their everyday lives and jobs enjoy being more submissive in the bed, says Cioffi, because it stimulates the amygdala. This brain region is our fear center that is heavily involved in excitement and pleasure during sex. The whispers, moans, and screams accompanied by dirty talk are all processed by the brain’s hearing center, including the temporal lobe, the frontal lobe, and the occipital lobe.

What the word is pointing toward is liberation, totality, and unabashed sexuality. It’s the underlying deep sense of permission that sub-communicates, “I am a sexual person and that is 100%, completely allowed” that is so attractive. Just like how most women want to feel their man confidently lead, ravish, and direct during sex, most men also want to feel a certain energy from you. I don’t mean playing the Dominant polarity (unless that’s what the two of you are into). It’s more about speaking confidently without hesitance or shame. I’m about to break down the deeper mechanics of what turns him on, and give you some examples of it in action, so you can start pressing his buttons, and even improvise your own saucy lines on the spot.

The vibe of your dirty talk can change to not only fit your specific personality, but also your mood. Figuring out what kind of dirty talk works for you is also a unique and personal journey. Firstly, it’s a great way to keep communication flowing in the bedroom in the hottest way possible. In [the TV show] Never Have I Ever, there’s a scene where Paxton comes into Devi’s room one night and they kiss for the first time. “Fire for You” by Cannons is playing in the background. The first time I watched it, I thought, “OMG that song is the one.” It’s the only one that can spice up the mood all day, every day.

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